Sometimes as a parent we make mistakes. It is important to learn from them, move on, and hope the repercussions don't follow you for long.
I fear that I have made a mistake. For 3 years Aeden has asked to have a lemonade stand. For 3 years I have put him off or flat out told him no. Yesterday I made the mistake of saying yes. Even worse I made the mistake of saying he could have a combination lemonade stand/art sale.*
The plans have begun. There will be two pitchers (bought with Aeden's money, he is eyeing the ones with the spout) of lemonade******, two different sizes of cups, small will be twenty-five cents, large will be fifty-cents and signs.
A multitude of signs are needed. There will be open/close signs, signs stating there is a lemonade stand down the road, signs stating that the lemonade stand is at our house, and
two signs at the lemonade stand stating which side is the lemonade and which is the art sale.**
Soon he is going to be requesting the cool stickers he has been eyeing since he was four and decided he wanted a garage sale to sell his baby stuff and get more toys.***
However, none of these lead me to wondering if I have made a mistake in allowing the lemonade stand/art sale. No, all of this is typical of my darling quirky boy.
What leads me to believe I have made a mistake is the fact that my darling boy is already taking into account the fact that he won't be available to run his lemonade stand/art sale during camps. Therefore on a daily (hourly?) basis he
states that I (his mother!) will be running the sale for him while he is gone. He persists in his belief despite the fact that I continually decline the position of being his
employee!****
*I threw the art sale idea out there in hopes that he would give up the idea of having a store in the playroom. Before every playdate I have to remind him that we do not sell items to our guests.
**Because it wouldn't be blatantly obvious?
***Hmm we are working on that whole not being greedy thing.
****I have no intention of being his employee or a pathetic adult running a stand/sale for a kid in his absence. *****
*****It is clear to me why I can't follow conversations as I am constantly distracted with the flow of my thoughts.
******When re-reading the post I realized I forgot a crucial detail. When we were talking about lemonade ingredients I mentioned that he would need sugar. Aeden thought that was a great idea and now he can charge more because people will want something sweet! So not happening.